Lecture Outline for April 04, 2000
Pick Ups/Love


I. Pick-up Stages

• A. Assess Qualifiers
  
  1. Extraordinary
     
  2. Esoteric
     
• B. Assess Availability
• C. Find an Opener
  
  1. Innocuous Approach
  2. Flippant Approach
  3. Direct Approach
• D. Find an Integrative Topic
• E. Present a "Come-on" Self
• F. Schedule a Second Encounter
  

Love

I. Types

• A. Passionate
  
  1. altruism
     
  2. attractiveness
• B. Companionate
  
  1. Respect
     
  2. Congeniality
     
• C. Commitment
  
  1. Fidelity
     
  2. Responsibility

II. Falling in Love

• A. Attachment
• B. Romanticism
• C. Love Experiences
• D. Partner Idealization
• E. Physical Attraction
• F. Timing

III. Sex

• A. Gender differences
• B. Casual sex
• C. Happiness
• D. Communication
  
  

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