Resources for Parents

 

     

In Addition to Tuition: The Parents’ Survival Guide to Freshman Year of College.
M.E. Borden, M.A. Burleinson, and E.R. Kearns. (1995) Facts On File, Inc: New York.
What parents may not know about sending their first child to college fills a large volume—in this case, a detailed, step-by-step guide to both the undisputable facts and the judgment calls of the first college year. Knowing what to say to your child, how to say it, and when is as important as purchases, packing and moving in, paying bills and such typical challenges as roommates, grades, social life and avoiding risks. Although rather dry and matter-of-fact, Borden and colleagues’ practical adviser provides neophyte parents of a college student with informed insights into college life and tips for making their and their child’s transition a smooth one.

Empty Nest…Full Heart: The Journey From Home to College.
A.V. Steenhouse, Ph.D. (1998) Simple Life Press: Denver
Beginning with the senior year in high school, moving through the summer year after graduation, the final departure for college and the freshman year, Andre Van Steenhouse offers a lighthearted, yet savvy look at this turbulent time through her generous and compassionate world view, making it lively, humorous and emotionally resonant. She has interviewed hundreds of families making this difficult passage and includes their stories while providing her trademark sensitivity for handling each stage of the journey.

When Kids Go to College: A Parent’s Guide to Changing Relationships.
B.M. Newman and P.R. Newman. (1992) Ohio State University Press: Columbus.
Parents report how useful this book is for keeping a positive relationship with their student during the college years. So much is changing and parents want to understand what is happening for their student so that they can help the child develop successfully and lay the ground work for rewarding adult relationships. Parenting doesn’t end when children go to college; many parents continue to make important contributions to their child’s development. Some parents become very sad when their children go away. This book helps parents understand them better and keep in touch.

Helping Your First-Year College Student Succeed: A Guide for Parents.
Richard H. Mullendore and Cathie Hatch

Letting Go: A Parent’s Guide to Understanding the College Years
Karen Levin Coburn and Madge Lawrence Teeger

Doors Open from Both Sides: The Off-to-College Guide from Two Points of View: Parents and Students
Margo E. Bane Woodacre and Steffany Bane